Hey troubled mind:
Well for me, I have 2 kids. Both of whom are really busy kids. Met a few women from the library and from there I have met a lot of people. Seems like freeing up time is more difficult than filling it.
I'm a girl scout leader, I'm helping out with a local parks committee and am trying to organize some of us local homeschoolers into various activities.
I think the most helpful thing for me was finding ne'er been jw's and building a non-jw related life.
For me that was relatively easy as my spouse was not a jw.